Two weeks later, school started for the both of us. For me, it was my last semester taking my major classes and for Sophia, it was her 2nd year in college. We were chatting for a month and then she just decides to not talk to me for a while. I questioned myself “okay, I learned that she doesn’t take relationships as a priority, she’s always busy with her schedule, and gets annoyed with people”. I remember this last time when I was in a relationship with her before.” I wasn’t hurt or anything because she expressed her social media like she was in a relationship and didn’t respond to any guys whenever they messaged her. Then I started to question myself if she wanted to break up with me, she would’ve done it over a text like last time. We’re both older so I’m sure she be mature enough to talk to me in person. A month past and we rarely talked like before. I sent her messages but her social media was the same showing that she was in a relationship. It questioned me for a while now. A few options popped in my head. I didn’t do the same thing I did years ago, which was bringing flowers to her house because she wasn’t mad or sad about anything really. I thought about a few options to approach this situation. An option was waiting for her to say something about the relationship between me and her. Another option was to show up at her dorm but I don’t know whenever she was there, so I scratched this option out. My last option was messaging her saying “so, what’s going on between you and me?” So, I went for that message option and I told her I’m not talking to any other girl and I’m only talking to my guy friends… no response. So, I’ve waited a couple days to see if she shows that she was interested in me staying in the relationship. She didn’t respond, so that made me want to make a move. I was posting statuses related to “you’re gorgeous back then and now”. But remember, I wasn’t talking to any other girls. A preppy girl from our high school replied to it but I didn’t respond back to her or anything. I didn’t tag Sophia in it so I made her question herself. The reason why I tried attempting that is because she’s doing that to me. Then Sophia’s social media was showing that I ignored her, treated her wrong, and all the things that makes relationships break up. I thought to myself “okay well, you’re showing all these things but I have proof that I’ve been trying to show I was trying to make this relationship work”. So, on her end, that “event” of hers didn’t work too well. I was thinking to myself… what is she going to do now? Sophia proceeded to express some feelings to her ex and she knew I hated him with a passion. My response was “that doesn’t bother me as much, if you want him go ahead and I can leave”. So, she stopped completely with that and she went onto posting statuses that relate to “I cannot feel like a second option. I don’t believe words, I trust actions. I can’t mess with people who says that they like you but never showing that they do”. I was like okay, she jumped up to the next level. So, there I was, questioning myself for the next day. I will post a picture of her on my social media page saying a compliment about her looks and such. Sophia messaged me in less than five minutes. She said, “we aren’t even going out.” I honestly didn’t expect that from her but I for sure knew I went under her skin because it didn’t go her way. So, there she was, posting statuses about me publicly when rarely no one understands what the hell she’s really talking about talking about. I seen her post this status about “spoiling someone’s daughter”. I wasn’t quite sure if that was an idea of me getting her something but I thought of an idea of getting her something. I always knew she would feel bad if someone bought her something. That was basically the only reason why we broke up a few years back, she didn’t give anything in return. If she said, “we weren’t even going out”, I said fuck it i’ll just buy her something for Christmas because it was right around the corner. I bought her some type of material that you can never forget about. This plan will go two ways. Sophia will feel bad and wanting to bring it back to me and that means she’s going to have to see me, or she’ll just drop it at my house but she doesn’t know exactly where I live. It’s been nearly four months since this whole situation happened. I understand what she’s doing and not quite sure if she knows that I understand her. The night before New Year’s Day, she decided to call me early evening. I thought it was going to be good but she ended up assuming something that I didn’t do and telling the public that I’m “ruining” her life by messaging people that I faked an account on social media pretending to be her. We had an argument with each other for at least a good hour but I got to the point where I didn’t do any of it and she doesn’t believe me after all the things I’ve done for her. After I said everything that I had to say, I decided to drop the argument because I didn’t want to argue over something that I didn’t do. She didn't want the gift that I gave to her. I told her I want the gift back if she won't even bother wearing it. Sophia agreed that she'll return it within three weeks. Seven months later, she never returned the gift and we never spoke to each other ever since.