Finding someone who you can marry might be too difficult especially in this kind of world we live in now. Many people are not serious in a relationship and infidelity is becoming a common thing now. Because of this, people doubt other’s intentions of dating them and we all develop trust issues towards others. With this, many marriages often result in divorce and children are left to suffer from the broken family. To avoid this, I thought that it would be best if people would marry their best friends whom they have known each other for a long time. I have heard a lot of successful marriages just because they married their childhood friends or their best friends. Today, I will be elaborating on this matter.
You knew each other for a long time.
Since you are best friends, it means to say that you knew each other’s personalities and traits. With this, if you marry each other, it would be too easy for you to adjust with each other’s personalities and you won’t be arguing that often because both of you understands each other very well. It would be too easy for both of you to talk about your problems and solve it before it gets bigger.
You have been together most of the time.
Since you have spent most of your time together, it wouldn’t be a problem for you to marry each other and live under one roof as you have done this all the time. Marrying each other would look like you are still just best friends but with the commitment of being together until death. Marrying your best friend would make it easier for you to settle in and would also make you comfortable to the idea of sharing a house with someone else. You won’t feel awkward at all.
You share the same interests and if not, you support each other’s endeavors.
Being best friends mean having the same interests and having the same hobbies but if you are not that type of best friends then maybe you just support each other. Either way, having the same interests and supporting each other plays a great role in marriage. You won’t easily get suspicious and there won’t be any doubt. Also, doing things together would help you create a deeper connection which would totally make your marriage stronger.
You met each other’s parents and get along with them.
Meeting parents is one of those hurdles when trying to introduce someone you want to marry. Some parents really require you to bring the person you like for dinner so that they can get to know them well. Also, some parents would have a say on what types of person they want you to marry or not. Either way, parents have a vital role when it comes to marriage. They just don’t want you to marry any person because marriage is a big responsibility which they totally know and also, they are just looking out for you. So marrying your best friend whom your parents have met for many times would make it easier to introduce them and they would even give their blessings to both of you.
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