In love, there are some people who fall in love with someone who doesn’t feel the same way to them. Being in a one-sided relationship is so difficult because you won’t be able to notice it at first that your partner is just ignoring you or they are not doing what a loving partner normally does in a relationship and the worst thing is you don’t mind because you love them so much and you might be thinking that it’s normal. Many people have been hurt because they have been in a one-sided love and they thought that their partner really loved them. If you are in this type of situation, you shouldn’t stay for long. You shouldn’t even chase someone if they don’t reciprocate their feelings to you. Here are some of the reasons why.

They wouldn’t love you no matter what you do.

Chasing after someone who doesn’t love you will do you no good. Because whatever you do, they wouldn’t love you. No matter how much you impress them or no matter how much you show that you are interested in you, if they have already decided that they don’t like you, then they won’t. This is the reason why you shouldn’t chase after someone because the possibility of you getting rejected is high and if you are rejected by that person, the amount of pain you felt will be equivalent to the amount of effort you put in.

You will just be hurting yourself in the end.

When you chase after a person who is not sure about you, you will end up hurting yourself in the end. The amount of effort you put in will be just the same of pain you will be receiving when things don’t go your way. Sometimes, when we chase after someone, we tend to put in a lot of effort and because of this, we get this little ray of hope that one day, they might like us. But because of this thinking, we end up with a lot of pain if they reject us.

Your expectations might be wrong.

Expectations are a plague to a relationship especially if you are chasing after someone who doesn’t have feelings for you. When you are after someone, you have this thinking that if you just constantly show an effort and show an interest in them then they would one day fall in love with you. We expect them to love us just because we show them how much we love them but sometimes, that doesn’t work out.

Your time will just be wasted.

Time is precious and if you have wasted it on someone who doesn’t like you back, you will regret it someday. You will regret how much time you gave them even though they didn’t do the same thing to you. You will end up wishing to go back in time to take back all those moments you had wasted instead of finding someone who will really look at you and love you the way you want it. If you want to spend your time productively, here is a very interesting article to read. https://cultbox.co.uk/general/how-popular-films-and-tv-shows-influence-personal-lives