Saying sorry has become a habit of many people when they do something bad or when they hurt someone unintentionally. Sorry is a commonly used word and we use it in every day basis. Many people apologize every day that’s why this word has become so cliché that some people won’t even believe you if you say this word. They think that you are not sincere and they would need some kind of evidence that you really are sorry for your actions. It is so hard to trust some people now because they lie straight to our face without feeling guilty about it. Also, in relationships, saying sorry could fix superficial things in your relationships but sometimes, it won’t fix deep rooted problems. I will be sharing you some of the reasons why saying sorry doesn’t fix everything.

Saying sorry won’t fix everything if you have hurt someone too much.

            If you have been hurting someone for many times, the pain would accumulate into a big ball of pain and saying sorry won’t make things better for your partner. They have been through a lot and you saying sorry will just add to their suffering. This is why I think that saying sorry won’t fix everything because there are some wounds that are just so hard to heal and they leave a big scar behind.

Saying sorry won’t help if your problems are too deep.

            If your problems are too serious and too deep, saying sorry won’t be enough to fix it. Saying sorry is like a first aid only which means that it is not the real solution if your problems have a bigger cause. As I mentioned before, you should always act like you are feeling sorry, let your partner see that you are changing to become better and promise to yourself and your partner that you won’t do it again. If you only made a slight mistake, you can always say sorry but if it is too big of a problem, then do something else aside from saying sorry.

Sometimes, you need to prove that you are sorry by your actions.

            Saying sorry won’t be enough because it is so easy and you might just be saying that so that you won’t feel guilty of anything. Sometimes, you need to prove to your partner that you have changed and you should promise to them that you won’t do it again to avoid any problems in the future. There is a saying that says actions speak louder than words. So with this in mind, you should not only say sorry but you should also act like you are feeling sorry for your mistakes.

Some problems need to be discussed properly.

            There are just some problems where apologizing is unnecessary because what the problem needs is a serious discussion and not apologizing. There are times where some people wouldn’t bother saying sorry because they know it won’t make any difference. Rather than wasting each other’s times with pointless apologizing, it is better to get down to business and talk about what went wrong and what should both of you do to make things better again. Communication really is important in a relationship especially if you are still finding love. Chatting can help you so here’s an article to improve your chatting skills. https://www.definitions.net/article/5_tips_to_improve_your_chatting_skills_on_online_services