For him women were just an object he could please himself with, he would use such degrading terms, even family. He would degrade any woman in the family or friends circle he would flirt and try to egg on to cheat on my mom but every time the women denied him, he would get such a man, and start rumors about how unworthy or dirty they were on how they where just prostitutes, ect. Hearing all this at 10 years old was hard especially when it's about your own family.