Me and my parents joined the meeting, I had my list of accomadations I wanted ready.

Noise cancelation headphones. We talked about my sensory issues, but my advisor asked "well what do I do if someone else also wants to wear headphones."

Choice of seating. My autism was talked about.

What my advisor has seen. My challenges with empathy were talked about

Fidgets and plushies. Ways to calm down.

I've never struggled with empathy and I've never talked to someone who've seemed so understanding, yet completely riged. This is going to take awhile.