I remember my first introduction to sexual nature. At the time, I had no idea it was sexual nature. I had to look back at it and say “OH THAT’S WHAT THAT WAS”.
I never got the “sex talk”. Now that we have the internet, it might not be necessary.
Flashback to 10 years old. My parents have split up. Mom is dating an illegal Mexican who does not speak any English. They had absolutely no way to communicate with each other. He was the Spanish neighbor's brother.
This is how the relationship started. Both walked up to each other and grabbed each other's genitals. Then they headed straight to the bedroom.
One time, they were performing the dirty and I had no concept of what that was. I thought she was being attacked. Ape and horse noises were coming from the room.
I ran into the shaky, smelly room and shouted, “get off my mom you foreigner”.
It was obvious he had no idea what I said.
My mother screamed, “GET OUT! GO TO YOUR FRIENDS HOUSE.”
What popped into my head at that point was, “OH. She actually wants to make those noises and be attacked.” I knew that I needed to leave.
I said, “Ok”. I left the house and started to talk around the streets doing my best to imitate the noises I heard earlier.