When you feel that life is leading you to a dead end.

and you made adession of leaving this life .

because you have suffered enoug ,no one was in your back and you can not take it any more.

Then you will start to curse skies ,blame your bad luck ,blame others for the problems what you are having in your life ,and even blame your destiny.

Let me share something with you.

You must think deeply of everything is happening to you.

You should know that we came to this life for a purpose.

Everything is happening for a reason.

and you will only find it if you keep going .

You must decide what you are wanting.

DO you want people just feel sorry for you. OR DO you want them to look up to you ?

You are stronger than you think.

You have been gavin the pain because you are strong enough to handle it.

You should know when the trouble comes, it came for areason.

It might be to teach you patience.

OR , to teach you alesson.

It might be to make you stronger.

You must know that live was given to you, because you are strong enough to live it.

Don't let any thing or any one affect you. and force you to take a wrong decision.

Life is our gift.life is like your account in the bank .and every day is your balance .spent every day wisely and do not waste your balance. so life is as peruios as your count in the bank .save it and appreciate every day.

You have survived until this point.and you are going to survive in the future. you will survive whatever is coming.

Actually hard times makes us stronger.

If we do not face any hard time before when something hard comes up to our life we would not know How to handle it.

Because every time you had a hard time it teach you a new thing that we call experience and experience is so important thing to lift our spirit in time of lose and crisis.

We would not learn How to stranding up unless we fall first.

We must look at the pain and hard times differently .then we can turn our struggles into agift .

Actually if we do not have hard time, we will not know the value of good time.

If there is no dark, we will not know the value of light.

Eventually pain and struggle will make you a stronger person in the future, because it is giving us the experience ,wisdom, and strength which so important to us to continue living in this life. because the hurm that does not kill makes us stronger. in that case we have already turned the suffering into something meaningful.although the whole time you was thinking that your suffering was holding you back it was really giving you strength, courage and passion which will make you better person in the future.

That makes sense why some people said, " that there is something is more stranger than the distany, it is the courage to face that distany. "