Honestly, dealing with healthcare and paperwork was a total nightmare. Endless waitlists for gender-affirming care, tons of doctor's appointments and constantly changing documents were exhausting.Sometimes it felt like I was stuck in limbo, waiting for my new life to begin. Every delay or setback made me wonder if it was all worth it. Would I ever feel truly seen and recognized. But I refused to give up. I learned to speak up for myself, telling doctors and bureaucrats what I needed. Finding LGBTQ+ organizations and support groups was lifesaving! They guided me through the chaos.

Getting my updated birth certificate was epic! That tiny piece of paper acknowledged my true identity. Small wins like that kept me going.The process was overwhelming, but every step forward brought me closer to being me. When it felt impossible, I remembered why I started: to live freely and authentically. That kept me pushing forward.