Hey, as another non-binary individual who lived on an all-girl's floor in college, I'd recommend checking out the RA on your floor and see if she's chill and maybe someone you'd want to talk to. My RA was also my good friend, and she made sure to be inclusive of me even though I wasn't a girl. Like she acknowledged that not everyone on the floor was a girl but we were all still allowed to use the bathroom, basically recontextualizing it from "girls bathroom" to "second floor only bathroom." Not only that, college is where I felt even more sure of my indentity because I was out of the house where I was constantly hearing my parents refer to me with she/her when we talked or when they talked over the phone. I know it's a big change and your feelings are valid, but I have faith that you'll find a comfortable space in your dorm over time.
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